Argumentation Behaviour
Arguments are part of live. They can actually be very healthy for relationships as long as they stay in context. The problems with arguments start when people start to become abusive and hurt each other intentionally. So how do we deal with this kind of situation as a blogger?
Bloggers are normally quite behaved in regards to arguments. But having said that, I’ve seen a disturbing trend of bloggers starting to use abusive language while blogging. Sometimes they even go as far as directly insulting others about their beliefs, behaviours and the way they write.
Are we on the verge of becoming swearing fffing this and that or are we bloggers that only feel too comfortable to adopt to the language of a certain blogger when we are one of the regulars hanging out? Does a swearing blogger give us permission to drop all our own values (whatever they may be) and swear too, or are these people merely individuals who know nothing else?
Let’s remember that arguments can be beneficial to any relationship, but they should be done with respect for each other. Once the respect goes, there is no hope for peace.
So please, next time you are having an argument try to acknowledge the person opposite you by:
- Respecting him/her as an individual entity
- Acknowledging that their opinion is just as valuable as ours, even if we don’t agree
- Refrain from dishing out nasty swear words (the world has already plenty of them)
- Giving the other person chance to say what’s on their mind too
- Not attacking them for a weakness (we all have them)
- Shaking his /her hand when you are done and saying thank you
Maybe you have something to add like your own opinion or tip on how to stay human whilst having an argument.

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