Dealing With Failure

by Monika Mundell on February 20, 2008

in Blog Content

image Failure is a by product of life. Admit it. I’m sure you failed many of times throughout life. I know I have. But what do you do when things go wrong and don’t turn out as expected? Do you just give up, or do you push through in your quest to make it regardless of what’s holding you back?

Dealing with failure is hard since we need to take a good hard look at ourselves and nobody likes to do this. It’s ingrained since our earliest childhood. We hate being reprimanded and always like to display ourselves in the perfect light.

So when failure happens we need to stop and take a good hard look at why we failed. often this will lead us to some very ugly truth about ourselves which are hard to accept.

But unless we do, we will struggle to move on.

Dealing with failure becomes easier the more you do it

Failing is like falling off the bike, dusting yourself off and step on again

The more this happens, the easier it becomes and before we know it, we drive the bicycle freehanded. We can have the same effects in business. Failure helps us to move on and learn from what didn’t work.

It’s nothing you should be ashamed of.

I once learned that the more failures one person has had, the more successful he/she will become in life. After many years of failure in my private life, professional life and business life I can safely attest to this.

Instead of being afraid now I welcome failure (with measures) since it helps me to move ahead.

Sure I want to succeed in everything I do, but at the same time I know now that making mistakes isn’t going to make me look like an idiot. It is simply a stepping stone to success.

How do you feel about the subject? Are you afraid of making mistakes?

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1 Ethan February 21, 2008 at 2:54 pm

I have made a site just for failure moments. You can enjoy it too – For Hard Times

2 Andrew Pavelski February 21, 2008 at 8:27 pm

If you aren’t failing, chances are you aren’t putting in enough effort towards your goals. Failure is part of the learning process… Nice article Monika.

3 Monika Mundell February 22, 2008 at 2:17 am

@ Ethan: wow, what a great idea and those quotes and videos are just too good. I have this big grin on my face right now from “the lion sleeps tonight vid” ;-)

@ Andrew: well said about putting in the effort.

4 Mike Warren February 27, 2008 at 3:41 am

Failure is just another path to success. What a great article. I’ve learned a lot in the past few months reading
reading your emails, thank you for great content to keep me going on the right path to success.

Mike Warren
gogreensun.com
theinteriorguyllc.com

5 Monika Mundell February 27, 2008 at 8:50 am

@ Mike: you are welcome. We always strive for the best here at Easy WordPress. ;-)

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